This is Part 1 of the 4-Part "Seven Keys to
Permanent Weight Loss Success" series.
Terrorists are aptly named because their tactics
are designed to strike fear into the hearts of the people. This fear is
often irrational. Many people bide their time suffering anxiety over
the next unlikely attack while falling prey to a monster that kills
more people every week than those murdered on September 11th. This
killer has no hidden agenda and destroys without prejudice. Those who
are unfortunate enough to meet this nemesis often suffer prolonged pain
before eventually succumbing and “giving up the breath” as death was
described in ancient Egypt.
What could possibly be so terrible? In the year
2000, the leading preventable cause of death was tobacco. Only a few
decades ago, doctors and priests would smoke during commercials and
share their favorite brand of cigarette. Today, there is a stigma
associated with smoking because we understand the link between tobacco
and death. Unfortunately, there is a new competitor who is rapidly
gaining ground. This competitor claimed thousands lives in the year
2000, and was the second leading preventable cause of death in the
United States, according to the Centers for Disease Control (CDC). Who
is this deadly threat to society?
Poor diet and lack of exercise.
Surprised? Thousands of people die every day due
to poor eating habits and lack of regular exercise. The death
certificate won’t mention their favorite fast food combo meal or the
fact that they would rather watch the latest golf tournament than take
a stroll through the park. Instead, one of the many degenerative
diseases that have been conclusively linked to nutrition and exercise
will stake its claim over another life.
Society spends more time and energy worrying about
violent threats than dealing with this leading cause of death. While
the popularity of products and services designed to address the
situation is growing – in fact, the health and wellness industry is en
route to become the next trillion-dollar industry according to
economist Paul Zane Pilzer – the rate of obesity, overweight, and
conditions related to poor diet and lack of exercise such as type II
“adult onset” diabetes is increasing. In fact, adult onset diabetes is
now being diagnosed in enough children that most medical professionals
simply refer to it as “type II.”
Perhaps one reason why this epidemic is so hard to
combat is that people are focused on the solution as a product or
service, rather than a process. To quit smoking, many people receive
counseling, join groups or follow systems because it’s not as simple as
tossing the last pack (the author is one of the fortunate few who was
able to stop smoking “cold turkey” but found it far more difficult to
overcome his poor eating habits). Overweight and obesity is a condition
related to behavior and patterns that have taken years to create, so
the notion that some magic product will suddenly undo the thousands of
days of programming is absurd. Successful, permanent weight loss is a
process, not an event.
During a recent seminar that I conduct,
participants explored the concept of just how powerful the mind is and
how this relates to losing fat. After a serious of powerful exercises,
they were asked to create an action plan based on what they learned in
order to successfully lose fat and keep it off. The result of this
workshop was seven keys that addressed what most diet programs or
weight loss systems do not: the fact that fitness starts inside.
Here, then, are seven keys to permanent weight
loss success that start on the inside.
Key #1: Be Positive
You’ve probably heard this one before. It’s a
popular cliché. In order for it to work, however, you have to move
beyond a catchy statement and integrate this as part of your life. In
order to truly “be positive” you must start with an understanding of
the mind. Your reality is perception, and perception is influenced by
your thoughts. Thoughts create reality. What you think about expands.
A good friend and client of mine was a pilot for
many years. After the terrorist attacks on September 11th, he was out
of work. He went through a period of extreme grief, pain, and anger.
His health suffered. It wasn’t the money that struck such a powerful
blow. It was something else, a mistake many people made.
You see, my friend’s reality could be summed up
with this statement: “I am a pilot.”
Can you see the danger in this? He defined himself
by what he did, not who he was. By losing his job, he lost his
identity. In reality, he was there all along, but his ego kept getting
in the way of finding his true self. He had to learn how to let go and
be himself, and define who he was on his own merits, not by his
actions, level of success, or how others perceive him.
Many people who are overweight create the same
situation. Most will create the statement, “I am fat.” Of course, the
desire to lose weight might exist, but if your definition of self-worth
is based on the amount of fat you carry, what happens when it’s gone?
If you’ve lived with “I am fat” for months or years, who do you expect
to become when the fat is gone? This subconscious fear of losing your
identity can sabotage your process.
What we think about expands. If you focus on the
fat you carrying, or the difficulty you have losing weight, then expect
more of it. Expect more fat, and expect a difficult time losing the
fact. On the other hand, if you focus on releasing the fat, on your
success and the process, then this is what you will receive more of.
The fat won’t go away overnight. However, if you spend just one day
eating healthy foods and exercising – even if it’s just taking a short
walk – would you consider that to be an improvement? Could you call
that a “healthy day” compared to your previous habits? What if you
decided to be, “I am healthy,” and give the fat some time to let go?
Be positive means be realistic, and focus on the
positive progress. Focus on abundance – get more of what you wish to
receive, instead of thinking about what you don’t want.
These keys will be continued in part 2.
Copyright 2005 Jeremy Likness
About The Author
Jeremy Likness is an author, motivational speaker,
international health coach, Certified Fitness Trainer and Specialist in
Performance Nutrition. He wrote the internationally selling book, Lose
Fat, Not Faith http://www.LoseFatNotFaith.com (ISBN
0976907925) after losing 65 pounds of fat. He was a Top Finisher in a
2000 Physique Transformation competition. Read more articles by Jeremy
at http://www.NaturalPhysiques.com/.